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"DLS"...10 Steps to Confidence

Proverbs 31:25

"She clothes herself with strength and dignity , and she laughs without fear of the future."

Dear Little Sister,

We're going to do things a little differently today ;) We are going to be introduced to the idea of Confidence 101! And here! I have created a whole arsenal of weapons for you to use to help you learn! I have fun photos, 10 tips, AND an inspirational quote at the bottom! (lol it's ok you can go ahead and scroll down. Use this post as you wish.) I am so excited to see who this might help! If you feel pretty powerful at the end-send me a picture! I would LOVE to see your smiling face! Let's lift each other up one step at a time. I am so excited for you! Go you! lol

1) Be Grateful

*Don't miss this step!*

Take a moment to be grateful for the little things. Honestly break things down to the bare basics-the bare "minimums." Think: "I am so happy that I woke up. I have a core that can pull myself up out of my own bed, I can walk on my own legs, and I have a roof over my head." It feels weeeeird BUT it puts things in perspective! Starting the day like that will show you how many things you do have and you will be overwhelmed with how good your life really is. Because "A thankful heart is a happy heart."

2)Make a Success List

Make a list of your top 3 favorite people in the world. Why do you look up to them? How do they inspire you? Why are they different from everyone else, and how do they use that to their

advantage? (Example) My top 3 are Lindsey Stirling, Jeanie Mai and Ingrid Nilsen. (followed by Lilly Singh, Tamera Mowry and Esther to name a few)lol. All of these women were the first to do things differently in their worlds and were proud of who they were and what gifts they have to give. Through this-they inspire others to do so too.

3)Spend Quality time...with you

You'll never know what makes you happy- if you never ask yourself. So just ask yourself what you like and spend some time learning about that! Enjoyyy this time, it's just for you!

4)Spend Quality time...with your family

I am lucky enough to say that my biological family is my TRUE family. But I do know sometimes that doesn't happen

for everyone. So spend time with YOUR true family. You know who I'm talking about ;) They'll know just what to say.

5)Help Someone Else

Show someone else that they matter! People might not even know that you think about them. I don't think there is a right or wrong way how to do this, just as long as it's genuine.

It's crazy, when we are in the deepest dumps- sometimes making someone else smile- pulls out a smile from us too. Go figure lol.

6)Change Your Look

Take that outfit idea that you